Introduction
Before opening the Bible, the pastor of the ADI Church of Messina returns to the first hymn of the evening. It speaks of dry bones: “You will live.” Then he picks up another line: “Lift us up from the ground.” “How many times do we fall and need to be lifted up by the Lord? There is no one here who can raise a hand and say: I have never fallen.”
The hymn also spoke of the son whom the Father welcomes home again. “The son is already a son. He drifts away, then the Lord welcomes him home when he returns repentant, and he is fully a son again.” The pastor sees in this a confirmation of the text he has prepared: Psalm 51, David's prayer after his fall.
He reads the whole psalm, then pauses on four verses (Psalm 51:10-13 in the World English Bible). One sentence gives the title: “Restore to me the joy of your salvation.” Sin extinguishes the joy of fellowship with God, but the Lord renews the heart of the one who repents and makes him able once more to bear witness to his grace.
Message Outline
1. Sin Extinguishes the Joy of Fellowship with God
- Psalm 51 was written when the prophet Nathan came to David on God's behalf, after his sin with Bathsheba. It is a psalm of repentance.
- This prayer comes from a man who knew God, who had honored him and sung his praises. “No one can surpass David” in praise. But here he is not celebrating a victory: he is confessing a fall.
- David had also caused Uriah, that woman's husband, to die, by arranging for him to fall in battle. He had tried to hide his fault, but “in God's eyes, we can hide nothing.” When Nathan brings him face to face with the truth, David acknowledges: “I have sinned against the LORD” (2 Samuel 12:13).
- He does not confess only to God, he confesses publicly: he writes down the words he spoke in prayer and in tears. That is how we know his victories, but also his falls.
- Sin had shut his mouth: he had nothing left to witness to others. Before asking for joy, he asks to be washed and cleansed. He is not merely seeking to feel better. “He does not ask for the joy of the kingdom, nor the joy of riches, nor the joy of new victories.” True joy is the fruit of fellowship restored with the Lord.
- “We can keep attending services while something has gone out inside. We can sing true words without tasting their reality anymore.”
- The pastor adds a nuance: not all sadness comes from a personal sin. Pain, serious illness, grief and exhaustion visit every family. But this psalm invites us to examine our hearts sincerely, so that no one covers with religious activities or responsibilities what they need to bring to the Lord.
2. Joy Returns When We Stop Hiding Our Sin
- “For I know my transgressions. My sin is constantly before me” (Psalm 51:3). David no longer hides, he presents his sin to the Lord.
- As long as he hid his sin, he carried its weight. Psalm 32 describes it: “When I kept silent, my bones wasted away through my groaning all day long” (Psalm 32:3). Silence had not set him free. “If you stay silent without confessing, things get worse.”
- The justifications he no doubt gave himself, perhaps by taking shelter behind his status as king of Israel, did not give him peace either. The passing of time had not cleansed him. “We have often heard that time is a remedy. The time that had passed did not cleanse his conscience.”
- Then he declares: “I acknowledged my sin to you. I didn't hide my iniquity” (Psalm 32:5). At last he brings to God what he had tried to hide.
- Galatians 6:1 asks those who are spiritual to restore the one who has fallen, in a spirit of gentleness. The Greek word, katartizo, is a medical term: setting a broken bone back in place, gently, without breaking it further. “Look to yourself, so that you also aren't tempted”: any of us could be in that situation.
- This is what David asks: “Lift me up, set me back in place, but in your mercy.” He knows that God will not break his bones further.
- Repentance begins when we stop defending and justifying ourselves. “It is easy to say: that's just how I am, it's my character. It is harder to say: Lord, this attitude is a sin, deliver me from it.”
- It is also easy to accuse the other person: “You are the one who said it, you started it.” When you point a finger at someone else, three fingers are pointing back at you. It is harder to acknowledge: “I nursed resentment. I refused to forgive. I let pride guide my answers.” The pastor confides: “Have you never repented of not taking a step toward forgiveness? I have, often.”
- “Maybe no one knows what you keep in your heart, but the Lord knows.” He calls you to confess it, not for the pleasure of knowing, but because he loves you and wants to set you free. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us (1 John 1:9).
3. “Create in Me a Clean Heart”
- “Create in me a clean heart, O God. Renew a right spirit within me” (Psalm 51:10). David understood that his problem was deep: his actions had revealed what was in his heart.
- This was revealed to him by the Word, through the mouth of the prophet. “Don't imagine that someone has to stand up and say: I am a prophet. God also speaks now, preaching is prophecy. God speaks to our heart through his Word.”
- “Create in me”: David sets others aside. There is something God must do in him. It is a humble prayer.
- “Who can put their hands into your heart? Who can put their hands into your soul? Who can intervene in our spirit? Only God.” We need him to transform our desires, what we love and what we cultivate in secret. “The other person doesn't know it, but God knows, and God sees your heart.”
- The pastor offers a prayer: “Lord, make me pure in my thoughts. Make me sincere in my intentions. Make me ready to obey, even when no one sees me.”
4. “Do Not Cast Me Away from Your Presence”
- “Don't throw me from your presence, and don't take your holy Spirit from me” (Psalm 51:11). A solemn plea.
- David had seen in Saul's life the consequences of disobedience. Saul's life did not end well, because he stubbornly kept disobeying and dishonoring the Lord. David does not want to end like him.
- He had a throne, a palace, the authority of the most powerful kingdom of his time. None of it could close the distance that sin had opened. “He possessed everything, but he had lost fellowship with the Lord.”
- “There is no wealth, no affection, no possession, no glory worth more than fellowship with the Lord.” Guard it: set aside time for prayer, let the Word correct you, obey the Holy Spirit when he shines a light on what you need to give up.
- Fellowship with God is too precious to be sacrificed for a sin we want to keep, a false thought we nurture, a bad relationship we want to maintain. “Let's not sell it off for what is worthless.”
- God can renew a heart that has grown cold and make a conscience used to compromise sensitive again. He can rekindle the desire for the Word and for prayer. “Revival always begins with me. We look at the coldness of others, but I do not measure my own spiritual temperature.”
5. “Uphold Me with a Willing Spirit”
- “Restore to me the joy of your salvation. Uphold me with a willing spirit” (Psalm 51:12). Regained joy comes with obedience from the heart. We cannot forget where the Lord brought us from.
- According to the pastor, this spirit here is not the Holy Spirit: it is the human spirit that must be willing. David asks to be upheld by God in obedience, because he knows how fragile he is, how many times he has promised without keeping his word.
- The pastor confides: “Many times, my personal prayer is not a list of things. It fits in one sentence: Lord, help me. Because I can't do it.”
- “We have the abilities, but the will is missing. We have the strength, but the will is missing. We have the time, but the will is missing.” Hence the prayer: give me a willing spirit.
- This regained joy does not make us indifferent to sin: it makes us love the Savior more. If the Lord is calling you tonight to ask forgiveness, do it. If you need to break with a hidden habit, give it up. If you need to be reconciled with someone, take the step that is yours to take, without waiting for the other person to move. If you have neglected prayer, seek the Lord's face again.
- Forgiveness does not automatically erase every consequence: David had to face them. Yet in the midst of that painful road, he was able to taste the joy of salvation again. Do not rely only on the strength of your resolutions, seek the fullness of the Holy Spirit.
6. “I Will Teach Transgressors Your Ways”
- “I will teach transgressors your ways, and sinners will be converted to you” (Psalm 51:13). Restored joy becomes a testimony to the grace of God.
- The order matters. David did not begin by saying: “I will play the teacher for others.” He first presented his heart to the Lord, then he speaks of service, then of helping others.
- “You cannot help anyone if you have not allowed the Holy Spirit to begin a work in your life, to change your character, even if you have attended the assembly and served in the work for years.”
- A parent, a Sunday school teacher, a preacher, every believer can ask: “Do I live before God what I teach others? Do they see the gentleness of my character? Do I create harmony or tension?”
- Only someone who has received mercy can speak of mercy with humility. Someone who has let himself be corrected can call others to repentance without feeling superior.
- “Sinners will return to you”: not to a religion, not to me. “A soul is not healed when it comes back to church. Many who are present are dead, with broken bones, spiritually speaking. A soul is healed when it comes back to God.”
- We cannot produce conversion by our eloquence. We can bear faithful witness to Christ, pray and count on the work of the Holy Spirit. “The grace that lifts you up can still use you to show others the way back to God. But not if you have not first let it lift you up.”
The pastor closes with an appeal: if the Holy Spirit has shown you something lacking, a sin, an unhealthy trait of character, confess it. If he has shown you hardness in your thoughts or your relationships, let him break it. And if you live by appearances, come before the Lord in truth, because “O God, you will not despise a broken and contrite heart” (Psalm 51:17).
Key Takeaways
- Sin extinguishes the joy of fellowship with God. We can attend services and sing true words while something has gone out inside.
- Joy returns when we stop hiding, justifying ourselves and accusing others. Neither silence nor time cleanses the conscience.
- Only God can create a clean heart. He lifts up the one who falls the way a broken bone is set back in place, gently.
- Nothing is worth more than fellowship with the Lord: not a throne, not riches, not glory. Revival begins with me.
- Someone who has been lifted up by grace can show others the way back to God, but not before.
Personal Application
- Has something gone out in you, even though you keep attending services and singing?
- What are you trying to hide or to justify with “that's just how I am”?
- At whom are you pointing a finger, when you could acknowledge: “I nursed resentment, I refused to forgive”?
- What concrete step is the Lord asking of you this week: asking forgiveness, giving up a hidden habit, being reconciled, taking up prayer again?
- Do those you teach, at home or at church, see in your life what you tell them?
Verses Cited
Frequently Asked Questions
Why does David ask for the joy of salvation in Psalm 51?
After his sin with Bathsheba and the death of Uriah, David lost the joy of fellowship with God. He asks neither for the joy of the kingdom, nor for riches, nor for new victories: he asks for the joy that is the fruit of fellowship restored with the Lord.
Does all sadness come from a personal sin?
No. The preacher makes this clear: pain, illness, grief and exhaustion visit every family without depending on a specific sin. But Psalm 51 invites each person to examine their heart sincerely and not to cover with religious activities what they need to bring to the Lord.
What does “restore” mean in Galatians 6:1?
The Greek word katartizo is a medical term. It means setting a broken bone back in place, gently, without breaking it further. This is how God lifts David up, and this is how believers are to restore someone who has fallen, in a spirit of gentleness.