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1 Corinthians 7
In brief
1 Corinthians 7 answers questions the Corinthians had put to Paul about marriage and singleness. Paul affirms that marriage is good, that each spouse must give the other what is owed, and that singleness is a gift, just as marriage is. He deals with separation and with couples where one does not believe, then lays down a principle: each person stays before God in the calling received. He ends with advice about the engaged and about widows.
The chapter in 6 parts
1Now concerning the things about which you wrote to me: it is good for a man not to touch a woman.
2But, because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband.
3Let the husband give his wife the affection owed her, and likewise also the wife her husband.
4The wife doesn’t have authority over her own body, but the husband. Likewise also the husband doesn’t have authority over his own body, but the wife.
5Don’t deprive one another, unless it is by consent for a season, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer, and may be together again, that Satan doesn’t tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
6But this I say by way of concession, not of commandment.
7Yet I wish that all men were like me. However each man has his own gift from God, one of this kind, and another of that kind.
8But I say to the unmarried and to widows, it is good for them if they remain even as I am.
9But if they don’t have self-control, let them marry. For it’s better to marry than to burn.
10But to the married I command—not I, but the Lord—that the wife not leave her husband
11(but if she departs, let her remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband not leave his wife.
12But to the rest I—not the Lord—say, if any brother has an unbelieving wife, and she is content to live with him, let him not leave her.
13The woman who has an unbelieving husband, and he is content to live with her, let her not leave her husband.
14For the unbelieving husband is sanctified in the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified in the husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy.
15Yet if the unbeliever departs, let there be separation. The brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us in peace.
16For how do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?
17Only, as the Lord has distributed to each man, as God has called each, so let him walk. So I command in all the assemblies.
18Was anyone called having been circumcised? Let him not become uncircumcised. Has anyone been called in uncircumcision? Let him not be circumcised.
19Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing, but the keeping of the commandments of God.
20Let each man stay in that calling in which he was called.
21Were you called being a bondservant? Don’t let that bother you, but if you get an opportunity to become free, use it.
22For he who was called in the Lord being a bondservant is the Lord’s free man. Likewise he who was called being free is Christ’s bondservant.
23You were bought with a price. Don’t become bondservants of men.
24Brothers, let each man, in whatever condition he was called, stay in that condition with God.
25Now concerning virgins, I have no commandment from the Lord, but I give my judgment as one who has obtained mercy from the Lord to be trustworthy.
26Therefore I think that because of the distress that is on us, that it’s good for a man to remain as he is.
27Are you bound to a wife? Don’t seek to be freed. Are you free from a wife? Don’t seek a wife.
28But if you marry, you have not sinned. If a virgin marries, she has not sinned. Yet such will have oppression in the flesh, and I want to spare you.
29But I say this, brothers: the time is short, that from now on, both those who have wives may be as though they had none;
30and those who weep, as though they didn’t weep; and those who rejoice, as though they didn’t rejoice; and those who buy, as though they didn’t possess;
31and those who use the world, as not using it to the fullest. For the mode of this world passes away.
32But I desire to have you to be free from cares. He who is unmarried is concerned for the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord;
33but he who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife.
34There is also a difference between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. But she who is married cares about the things of the world—how she may please her husband.
35This I say for your own profit; not that I may ensnare you, but for that which is appropriate, and that you may attend to the Lord without distraction.
36But if any man thinks that he is behaving inappropriately toward his virgin, if she is past the flower of her age, and if need so requires, let him do what he desires. He doesn’t sin. Let them marry.
37But he who stands steadfast in his heart, having no urgency, but has power over his own will, and has determined in his own heart to keep his own virgin, does well.
38So then both he who gives his own virgin in marriage does well, and he who doesn’t give her in marriage does better.
39A wife is bound by law for as long as her husband lives; but if the husband is dead, she is free to be married to whomever she desires, only in the Lord.
40But she is happier if she stays as she is, in my judgment, and I think that I also have God’s Spirit.
Key verses
Yet I wish that all men were like me. However each man has his own gift from God, one of this kind, and another of that kind.
Paul speaks of a particular gift that each person has from God, one in one way and another in another. Marriage and singleness are both presented as paths that God gives, with no ranking in value.
Yet if the unbeliever departs, let there be separation. The brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us in peace.
If the unbelieving spouse decides to leave, the believer is not bound. Paul adds that God has called us to live in peace, which tempers the idea of an obligation to stay at all costs.
Let each man stay in that calling in which he was called.
The principle that structures the chapter: stay in the state you were in when you were called. Conversion does not require changing your situation in order to be fully Christian.
You were bought with a price. Don’t become bondservants of men.
Bought with a price, believers must not become slaves of men. Paul ties daily life to the work of Christ and to the freedom he gives.
But I say this, brothers: the time is short, that from now on, both those who have wives may be as though they had none; and those who weep, as though they didn’t weep; and those who rejoice, as though they didn’t rejoice; and those who buy, as though they didn’t possess; and those who use the world, as not using it to the fullest. For the mode of this world passes away.
Paul invites us to live the realities of this world with detachment, because the form of this world is passing away. He does not despise marriage or work, but places them in the light of the Lord's return.
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Frequently asked questions about 1 Corinthians 7
What does “it’s better to marry than to burn” mean in 1 Corinthians 7:9?
Paul is speaking to the unmarried and to widows: if they cannot control themselves, let them marry. He does not say that marriage puts out desire, or that one should marry for that reason alone. The verse acknowledges the reality of desire and reminds us that marriage is a legitimate and good setting.
Why does Paul recommend singleness in 1 Corinthians 7?
Paul does not condemn marriage: he says that marrying is not a sin. He mentions the shortness of time, the difficulties of the moment and serving the Lord without distraction. Someone who is not married can give more attention to the Lord's affairs, while a married person also cares about a spouse.
Can a Christian leave an unbelieving spouse according to 1 Corinthians 7?
Paul asks that a believer not divorce an unbelieving spouse who consents to stay. If the unbelieving spouse leaves, the believer is not bound, because God calls us to live in peace. Churches do not all draw the same conclusions about divorce and remarriage, which is why pastoral guidance matters.
Articles quoting 1 Corinthians 7
- 20 Bible Verses for Marriage and Couples
- 1 Corinthians 6: Flee Sexual Immorality, Your Sexuality Is Spiritual
- 1 Corinthians 10: Eat, Drink, and Live for the Glory of God
- When Marriage Drifts: From Covenant to Contract
- John 15: The Sacrifices in God's Covenants
- Numbers 14: Say No to Unbelief, Choose Trust
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