James 2: A Love That Bears the Father's Likeness

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Introduction

Josh Gardner, pastor of the KingsGate campus in Leicester, continues the "Wholehearted" series on the letter of James. He starts from a familiar image: family resemblance. In a child we recognize the traits of a father or mother, their talents, their quirks. His young son shows remarkable negotiating skills, and that is no surprise: his mother is "a formidable lawyer." When he lost his first tooth, he even secured "a substantial financial settlement" for the loss.

The week before, the series was about listening to the Word and putting it into practice. James turns the page and opens chapter 2 like this: if the Word shapes your life, it should first show in the way you treat others. James does not draw up a to-do list. He asks a question: if, through faith in Jesus, you have been adopted into God's family as a son or daughter, what should become visible in your life? In other words, what is the family resemblance?

Message Outline

1. No Favoritism in God's Family

  • "My brothers, don't hold the faith of our glorious Lord Jesus Christ with partiality" (James 2:1). James speaks of brothers and sisters: it is family language.
  • Having preferences is not the problem: tea or coffee, camping holidays or the beach. The pastor admits that at home, he loses that debate two to one.
  • Favoritism is "more subtle, more deeply rooted." It is treating someone with an unfair bias, judging their worth by their wealth, their status, their image, their number of followers, or by what they can give you, and then giving them treatment, time or energy accordingly.
  • Why does it have no place in God's family? Because it looks nothing like our Father. God does not love us because we deserved it or because we bring him something: he loves us because he is love.
  • James then shows what this visible love looks like: how we welcome others, how we care for them, how we give to them.

2. Loving with Open Arms: "I Welcome You"

  • James imagines a scene at church: a man comes in wearing a gold ring and fine clothes, and a poor man comes in wearing shabby clothes. The first is offered a seat of honor, while the second is told to stand or to sit on the floor (James 2:2-3).
  • We tell ourselves right away that we would never do that. But the question is more subtle: "For whom do I naturally make room, and for whom do I not, without realizing it?"
  • The pastor says he has no driveway and parks on the street. When someone parks in front of his house, it annoys him, even though the law gives him no right to that space: "it's mine." There is sometimes something similar in the Church: my people, my conversations, my chair.
  • Preferences become favoritism when we make room only for those who are like us: same culture, same background, same education, same accent, same status. James does not mince words: you make distinctions and you judge "with evil thoughts" (James 2:4).
  • "Didn't God choose those who are poor in this world to be rich in faith?" (James 2:5). James does not say the poor are closer to God. He denounces a materialistic world that measures a person's value by their wealth. Our God goes to the one who is ignored, to the one who is alone, to those on the margins.
  • At his first service at KingsGate, on the Cambridge campus, Josh Gardner was welcomed "with open arms," and it left a mark on him. Recently, more than twenty people of different origins, cultures, nationalities and backgrounds squeezed into his home for a welcome meal. One guest spoke of a "beautiful chaos." The pastor thought: this is exactly what the Church should be, a place that makes room for everyone.
  • The challenge: toward whom, someone different from you, can you reach out this week? Be brave, start a conversation, learn their name, make room for them.

3. Loving with an Open Heart: "I Care for You"

  • "However if you fulfill the royal law, according to the Scripture, 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself,' you do well" (James 2:8). James takes up the teaching of Jesus.
  • In Luke 10, when Jesus is asked "who is my neighbor?", he does not give a definition: he tells the story of the good Samaritan. Making a Samaritan the hero was provocative for a Jewish audience who saw Samaritans as outsiders, as "others." We must also love those we put in the "them" category.
  • It is easy to care for those who think like us. During 21 days of prayer and fasting, the pastor fasted from every form of entertainment: television, radio, music, podcasts, social media, and even football. By the end, he felt much more peaceful, and above all "less hostile" toward those he might disagree with.
  • He drew a lesson from it for himself: "Be careful, Josh, what you feed your heart." We feed on content that confirms our opinion and we end up in an echo chamber: "I'm right, I'm right, and they're wrong." People are then reduced to a post, a political opinion or a mistake, and our heart closes.

4. Mercy Triumphs over Judgment

  • "So speak, and so do, as men who are to be judged by a law of freedom. For judgment is without mercy to him who has shown no mercy. Mercy triumphs over judgment" (James 2:12-13).
  • We were in the ultimate "us and them" situation with God, separated from him by our sin, our mistakes, our failures. God did not maintain the division: he crossed the distance through the life, death and resurrection of Jesus.
  • Since you have received this mercy, show it. "In this world where there is so much division," do not shut yourself into your position: build bridges, seek to cross the divide, because God crossed it to come all the way to us.
  • This does not mean giving up truth or your convictions. But in our relationships with others, mercy prevails over judgment.
  • Concretely: be quick to listen and slow to speak (James 1:19), put yourself in the other person's place before wanting to win the debate, choose curiosity over assumptions, and pray for that person: "Give me eyes to see them as you see them."

5. Loving with Open Hands: "I Give to You"

  • "And if a brother or sister is naked and in lack of daily food, and one of you tells them, 'Go in peace, be warmed and filled;' and yet you didn't give them the things the body needs, what good is it? Even so faith, if it has no works, is dead in itself" (James 2:15-17).
  • Someone is in need, you have the means to meet it, and you give only words of encouragement: something is wrong. Such a faith is dead, that is, empty and fruitless. James goes so far as to say that even the demons believe (James 2:19).
  • Works do not earn us salvation: we are saved by grace, through faith in Jesus. But, according to a famous theological saying, we are saved by faith alone, and the faith that saves is never alone.
  • "We do not do good works to be accepted by God. We do them because we have already been accepted." We do not do them to enter God's family, but because we are already part of it. That is the family resemblance.
  • Favoritism looks at the need and says: it's too big, an organization or the Church will take care of it. Loving wholeheartedly means not asking "does he deserve my help?" but "how can I help?"
  • A few years ago, the pastor and his wife were challenged: "I don't want what the Church does to be my excuse for doing nothing." They got involved with a Christian charity in Leicester with a fitting name, Open Hands, which helps the most vulnerable in the heart of the city: regular financial gifts, gifts of resources and time. His wife sits on the board of trustees.

6. Abraham and Rahab, Two Models Who Could Not Be More Different

  • James ends the chapter with two examples (James 2:21-25). Abraham, father of our faith, a wealthy patriarch with a recognized religious heritage. Rahab, a foreigner to God's people, living in Jericho on the margins of society, a prostitute.
  • Everything separates them: culture, background, wealth, status, religious heritage. And yet James places them side by side, as equals. That is the whole point of the chapter: nothing external matters. What matters is a faith that leads to action.
  • Abraham was ready to lay everything before the Lord, even his son Isaac, the one who carried all the promises (Genesis 22). Rahab opened her home and risked her life to protect the Israelite spies (Joshua 2).
  • Rahab did not seem to have much in her hands, and yet, through her, the history of the world changed. "It doesn't matter what you have in your hands. It's a question of the posture of the heart."
  • What has God put in your hands? Money, a meal, a ride to offer, gifts and skills, or simply the attention to notice someone this week.
  • The temptation today is to say: I must think of myself, stay financially prudent, cut back a little. The pastor invites us to trust in "God's economy" rather than the world's. Abraham's calling was to be blessed in order to be a blessing (Genesis 12:2). "Let us not be defined by fear or scarcity, but by faith, mercy and love."

7. A God Who Welcomes Us with Open Arms

  • How can we welcome, care and give? Because we have a God who welcomed us, who cares deeply for us, and who gave himself completely for us on the cross. Jesus Christ, arms stretched out: God welcomes you with open arms.
  • The pastor invites those who have never decided to follow Jesus, those who have "one foot in and one foot out," or those who feel far from him, to make this day the day they say: "I want my faith to be visible."
  • He leads a prayer: "Lord Jesus Christ, thank you for loving me, welcoming me, caring for me, and giving your life for me. Forgive me for going my own way. Today, I put my trust in you."
  • He prays that the Church would be a place of exceptional hospitality, where mercy triumphs over judgment, and a Church of great generosity, trusting God as provider and blessing others as it has been blessed.

Key Takeaways

  • Adopted into God's family, you are called to bear his likeness, and it shows first in the way you love others.
  • Favoritism measures a person's worth by their wealth, status or what they can bring. It looks nothing like our Father.
  • Your neighbor includes those you put in the "them" category. Since you have received mercy, mercy triumphs over judgment.
  • We are saved by faith alone, but the faith that saves is never alone: it becomes visible in action.
  • Like Abraham and Rahab, it does not matter what you have in your hands: what counts is the posture of the heart.

Personal Application

  • For whom do you naturally make room, and for whom do you not, without realizing it?
  • Which person different from you can you go and greet this week, to learn their name and start a conversation?
  • What are you feeding your heart with: do your reading, your podcasts and your social media lock you into an echo chamber?
  • Toward whom have you let judgment take precedence over mercy, and how can you pray for that person?
  • What has God put in your hands, and what need around you can you help meet?

Verses Cited

Frequently Asked Questions

What does James 2 mean when it forbids partiality?

For Josh Gardner, it is not about having preferences, like preferring tea to coffee. Favoritism is more subtle: treating someone with an unfair bias, judging their worth by their wealth, their status, their image or what they can bring us. It has no place in God's family, because it looks nothing like our heavenly Father.

What does "mercy triumphs over judgment" mean in James 2:13?

We were separated from God by our sin, and God crossed the distance through the life, death and resurrection of Jesus. Because we have received this mercy, we are called to show it to others, including those we disagree with. This does not erase convictions, but in our relationships, mercy comes first.

Does James 2 contradict salvation by faith alone?

No. Josh Gardner reminds us that we are saved by grace, through faith in Jesus. But the faith that saves is never alone. We do not do good works to be accepted by God: we do them because we are already accepted and already in the family. That is the family resemblance.

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